Proverbs 22:1 “A good name is more desirable that great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”
My name is Les, and I have a great name. I haven’t always thought so. When I was a kid I thought Leslie sounded like a sissy-name. My friend’s called me Les, but every year on the first day of school I cringed when the teacher called the roll: “Mark Hodges, Jill Huggins, Leslie Hughes.” My friends laughed, especially the guys. My inner voice said, “You have a girl’s name.”
Why couldn’t I have a cool name like my friend Rock Cassidy? “Rock” sounded so cool? No wonder he was an awesome athlete and great with the girls. How could he miss? He was Rock.
I would’ve settled for a plain, common name. I had friends named Mark, Mike, and John. Nothing flashy about those names, but they were better than Leslie.
The first guy I ever met named Leslie was Les Evans (like me, he used the short form, Les). We were best buds, until my family moved, and I attended a different school. Again I was the only Les.
I learned Bob Hope’s real name was Leslie Townes Hope, but I wasn’t consoled by that fact. He was an old guy. He didn’t count. So, for most of my school years I braced myself for the roll calls and paid attention for other guys named Leslie.
Why did my parents give me such a rotten name? The answer is simple—but I didn’t like it. I’m Leslie Glenn Hughes, Jr. My dad is Leslie Hughes, Sr. For most of my life I took for granted that I carried my father’s name. I didn’t understand the significance of what parents name children until I had children of my own. Usually a lot of thought goes into a name. My parents probably considered other options before they settled on Leslie for me.
As I grew up I didn’t consider myself honored to possess my dad’s name. He wasn’t a celebrity; he didn’t make a ton of money; he wasn’t a “tough guy.” He wasn’t taller than my friends’ fathers. My dad didn’t drive an eighteen-wheeler like my friend John’s dad. John’s dad had a cool job. My dad was a schoolteacher; then a pastor. He coached my little league team, served in our church, and spent most evenings at home. He was also flawed. He lost his temper, raised his voice, and sometimes acted selfishly, just like his oldest son.
I realized I have a great name only about two weeks ago. A couple of friends and I were on a golf trip and after one of the few drives that landed the middle of the fairway, they said, “Good shot, Les.” “Yeah, great shot, Les.” That’s when it dawned on me—I have my father’s name, and it’s a great name.
Of the thousands of times I’ve heard others speak my name, why did I immediately think of my dad on that day? Maybe I thought of him because I’ve golfed with dad and his buddies and heard them say the same words to him: “Good shot, Les.” That explanation sounds plausible, but I know it’s not the reason I thought of my dad on that day.
The week before the golf trip, my family learned that Dad has Mantle Cell Lymphoma. At the time I’m writing this he’s in stage four and it’s very aggressive. Dad was taking his first chemotherapy treatments in Kentucky while I was playing golf in Florida, and I felt guilty. For the first time in my life I was forced to face the fact that one day my dad’s going to die. I’ve known intellectually that eventually everyone dies, but I’ve known people who learned they had Lymphoma and died within a year. God may heal my dad, but He may not; and even if he makes it through the cancer, one day something else will take his life, and I’ll be left to carry his name.
My name hasn’t been dragged through the mud. When I hear my name I don’t think of some scandal or illegal business venture. When my dad introduces me people smile as if to say, “So, there are two of you?” My name is great, not because of what I’ve done, but because of my father’s life. He’s been a faithful father, friend, and mentor. He serves people. He shows love to his family; and he’s handed down his love for Christ to the next generation.
Someone greater than my dad gave me his name as well. His is Jesus Christ. As a follower of Christ I have a great name. The Bible says people first called followers of Jesus Christians in the city of Antioch (Acts 11:26). Paul wrote, “Therefore God exalted [Jesus] to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father,” (Phil. 2:9-11, NIV).
When my earthly father named me, I hadn’t done anything to deserve his favor. I hadn’t made any good grades in school. I hadn’t done any chores around the house. I hadn’t made him the first clay ashtray for Father’s Day. He gave me his name because he loved me, and at that time his name was one of the greatest gifts he could give.
Moses told the people of Israel, “The Lord did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples. But it was because the Lord loved you and kept the oath he swore to your forefathers that he brought you out with the mighty hand and redeemed you from the land of slavery,” (Deut. 7:7-8, NIV). God chose the Israelites as His people just because He chose them.
God didn’t give the Israelites a long explanation of His love. Did you ever ask your parents to give you a reason for their actions and they said, “Because I said so”? Didn’t you hate that? But that’s basically what God told the Israelites: “I chose you because I chose you.” And He loves us because He loves us. He gave no additional explanation. When we do something good, He doesn’t love us any more. When we blow it, He doesn’t love us any less. He just loves us. He’s given us His name.
Like most analogies, the comparison between my earthly father’s name and my heavenly Father’s name breaks down. My earthly Father gave his name to only one person. Our heavenly Father promised to give His name to anyone who calls upon it. “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved,” (Rom. 10:13).
I haven’t always honored my father’s name; but he certainly knew I wouldn’t when he named me. My perfection wasn’t a condition for the name. My dad’s never threatened to take his name back, and neither will my heavenly Dad. I’ll take my earthly father’s name to my grave; but I’ll take my heavenly Father’s name even beyond the grave into heaven. And when I’m gone my prayer is that I’ve given a great name to my son. His name is Leslie Glenn Hughes III.